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Book Review – There Will Always Be

There Will Always Be is a great book for kids to build social emotional skills and learn ways to deal with anxieties through self-affirmations. When I first came across the book, I was surprised at how the book pushes kids to think about change. A lot of adults also cannot understand how change can be a positive thing, even though very daunting.

It is really hard to help kids see that they are loved. Often, they face anxiety and stress about the many changes and failures they face, moving, new schools, new grade, new activities, and more. This book is such a great resource in helping kids see how change can be a good thing and that no matter what we face, family, self-love and confidence will be there forever.

The reading and re-reading of this book can be a great way for kids to build confidence and build their vocabulary in new ways. Kids can learn opposites and be more aware of what happens around them so they can understand how to see the silver lining in a bad day.

The illustrations are really good and the activities in the back are such a great addition to the book.

Book Description

Kids face challenges daily. It is important that we provide them with the confidence to stand tall in front of all the changes they will inevitably face in their lives.

This book shows little kids that beauty in the ups and downs they will face daily, because just like change, there are some things that are always constant the catch us when we fall. With the affirmations this book holds, a child can see that while change is the only constant, the one thing you can always count on is the love of your family and yourself.

Written for kids aged six through eight, the end of the book has reading comprehension questions that would be useful for parents and teachers.

Classroom guide for this book can be found by emailing the author at rainatwab@gmail.com

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0CJN3MD33
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Gayatri Raina (September 20, 2023)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 26 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 979-8218267926
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 4 – 7 years
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 4.2 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 8.5 x 0.07 x 11 inches

About the Author

Not a born writer, Gayatri came into the world of books after finding her way back to herself and wanting for children everywhere to know how change is not always a bad thing. What began as a short poem became a message of affirmations for the world. A dentist during the day, Gayatri now dreams of writing books on wellness, sleep etc. to raise awareness around preventative care.  What makes her perspective so relevant is her love for the world and daily practices that keep her grounded and confident. Today, Gayatri lives in Dallas, Texas with her two beautiful children and a shiatzu.  Follow her on Instagram @daily.wellness1

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5 Ways to Build Your Child’s Faith

Have faith in yourself and the rest will automatically fall in place! This is something we have often heard over time. How do you though, find ways to build your child’s faith in themselves and God?

Sara came home from school with a crestfallen face. Her teacher had picked her to do a reading activity next week in class. Sara had trouble reading fluently and would falter at words quite frequently. So she was terrified that she had to read in front of all the children. What would she do? All kinds of excuses started building in her head to avoid the class next week.

Have you faced such a situation, where you are expected to deliver something that is not your strength and you want to run away from it?  

As much as we enjoy being in our comfort zones, life sometimes pushes us to the edge of the cliff. As adults, we would somehow find our way through it. But when it happens to our children and we see them breaking in front of our eyes, it is indeed tough! Building faith in oneself is crucial in personal development. If children can be nurtured to believe in themselves in their early stages of life, they will gain the confidence to face any situation even in their adulthood. 

Here are 5 ways to build faith in children:

  • Encourage to explore:

Children are naturally curious and eager to explore. Giving them opportunities to explore and experiment will boost their sense of competency and self-confidence. It is also a learning journey. Encourage them to dress themselves, make choices about their activities and gradually take on more responsibilities as they grow. The feeling of being important starts ebbing in them thus fostering a sense of self-reliance.

Sara’s mother bought a variety of books – picture books, chapter books and kept them in various places of her room. Sara found it surprising and exciting to discover a book under her pillow that night and read the whole book before she slept that night.

  • Mistakes are steppingstones

Life is full of ups and downs and each setback is meant to groom us to be stronger and resilient. Encouraging children to embrace mistakes as learning opportunities will help them to face challenges with a positive attitude. Instead of sinking in despair in a difficult situation, they will have faith in themselves to chin up and face it.

Sara’s family came together to help her overcome her fears. Her father told her to read the passages aloud to him. During the first read, she faltered many times and was at the verge of tears, not wanting to read anymore. Her father encouraged her and told her to visualize her reading well in the class. Slowly Sara wanted to do it well and she decided to try again.

  • Set realistic goals

Setting age-appropriate goals is a powerful way to build discipline and competence. Break the task into smaller steps to help children not to feel anxious but achievable. Each time a goal is achieved, however small it may be, it will improve the self-belief in their abilities and the urge to experiment further. 

Sara had a big goal – she had to read well in class next week. She set a daily goal to read one paragraph correctly. In a week’s time, she was able to read the whole passage well. She was elated. She no longer struggled in reading.

  • Practice, practice, practice

The key to success is hard work and determination. The more you practice, the more you expertise in the skill. No matter how much ever boring or tedious it may seem, practice!

Sara read aloud a paragraph a day to her father. When she made mistakes, she started over again. She kept reading till she could read fluently without any doubt. In this process, she grew more confident to read other books as well.

  • Praise Effort

The most important attribute to building self confidence is to acknowledge and celebrate the efforts put in by children, rather than just the outcomes. Instead of saying, “You’re so smart,” try saying, “I’m proud of how hard you worked on that.” Emphasizing the value of effort and determination teaches children that success often results from resilience and hard work and not just by their talents. This boosts an enormous level of belief in themselves that they have the power within them to face any challenge in life.

Sara’s father appreciated her efforts at the end of each day’s reading. By the time a week passed, she was full of confidence to read in class. Her classmates were surprised at her improvement. The teacher also applauded her for her efforts. Now Sara knows that if she has any challenge, she can still overcome it!

Building faith in children is a precious gift that can last a lifetime. It empowers children to believe in their abilities, take on challenges, and pursue their dreams with confidence. Let’s strive to nurture every child to grow up with the faith to conquer any challenges that comes their way!

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GujaratiKoalaMom – Gujarati Hindi Language Card Games for Kids

Bilingual journey for kids can be a hard one. Luckily we have more and more products releasing every single day that help our kids build their vocabulary reducing the barriers between themselves and their heritage language. There are many ways that you can enforce language learning, books, cards, devices. The earliest way is to use card decks. Have you ever wondered about how to use Hindi language card games for kids to build their vocabulary.

While every product being created has a place in our lives, I specially appreciate gadget free resources like books and/or cards that help with the goal to develop language skills.

One such product has been brought to you by GujaratiKoalaMom.com

Akshita Kumar grew up speaking Gujarati, Hindi & English. She met my husband in 2012. He speaks Fiji Hindi even though he is a US born because his parents were born in Fiji. She herself is from the Fiji Islands. With a life in the USA, today her goal is to help the next generation learn through simple resources and repetition. Her own struggles with language learning drives her passion to make it easier for kids everywhere.

Now I don’t need to tell you the advantages of using cards for repetition and vocabulary building. That is a given!

Hindi Language Card Games for Kids

I received the cards to review and on top of the amazing quality of the cards and the fabulous packaging, my kids and I were fascinated with how many fun things we could do with cards. A little background on my family, we INVENT games from cards and stationary, constantly! So this was just a challenge for us that we truly enjoyed, specially since my kids are older now so have quite a bit of a Hindi vocabulary.

Game 1 (for Toddlers or Beginners)

A basic game for little ones. Each child (and parent) gets 10 cards each. IF a child gets it right, they get a point that you can show off on a board or if you believe in incentives, maybe a bite of their favorite snack. The person who gets more points wins.

The catch is of course that the HINDI translation of the world should be given. This would of course work with any language. These cards are available in Hindi and Gujarati as well.

Game 2 (Older Kids aged 7 and above)

This game would be for someone who has a little bit of a vocabulary. You each get 10 cards. The goal is to try to use as many of these words or make as many sentences as you can. If you can do that, then you get 2 points each. One for correct usage and one for using in sentence. If one or other is done, then one point each.

BONUS points for using adjectives and/or verbs particular to the item on the card. So “bhuri gaay” meaning brown cow or “uchalta mendhak” meaning jumping frog.

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Hindi and Gujarati learning has been made super easy by Akshita Kumar. I know how hard she has worked personally to make these cards durable, easy to use, and understand by kids. The card stock used is of top quality and can withstand all the gunk kids have on their hands. The illustrations are attractive, and you can create quite a few games by using them. Comment below if you think of any more using these or have any more language games in mind.

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Debt-Free Degree : Unique Ways to Fund College Education Without Loans

Debt-Free Degree:  Want to know of unique Ways to Fund College Education Without Loans? Getting a college education is crucial, but the burden of student debt can be overwhelming. Fortunately, several effective strategies to fund your college education without resorting to loans exist. This piece from Raising World Children highlights primary methods to help you manage college finances and avoid excessive debt.

 

It’s important to remember that preparing for college isn’t just about getting good grades and writing compelling application essays. It’s also about developing a solid financial plan that allows you to earn your degree without crippling your future with debt. From scholarships and grants to work-study programs and part-time jobs, there are many resources available to students who want to minimize their reliance on loans.

Unique Ways to Fund College Education Without Loans

Apply for Scholarships and Grants

One of the most effective ways to fund your college education without debt is to apply for scholarships and grants. Numerous organizations offer financial aid based on various criteria, such as academic achievement, extracurricular involvement, and unique circumstances. Take the initiative to research and apply for these opportunities, as they can significantly reduce your financial burden. Consider work-study programs offered by your college or university. These programs allow you to work part-time while studying, providing an income that can be used towards your tuition and other expenses.

Live Off-Campus

Consider living off-campus as a means to save on housing expenses. Renting an apartment or sharing accommodation with roommates is often more cost-effective than living in a college dormitory. Explore affordable housing options near your campus and create a budget that allows you to manage your living costs effectively. Consider utilizing public transportation or cycling to school to save on commuting costs. Many cities offer discounted public transit passes for students, which can be cost-effective.

Work Part-Time

Securing a part-time job while attending college can provide you with a steady income to cover your expenses. Look for flexible work arrangements that align with your class schedule, and prioritize jobs that offer relevant experience in your field of study. Working part-time helps with financial stability and provides valuable real-world skills. Securing a part-time job can also expand your professional network, providing opportunities for future career growth. It can instill a sense of responsibility and work ethic that will be invaluable in your post-graduate life. Plus, the balance between work and study can enhance your time management skills, which are crucial in both academic and professional settings.

Attend Community College

Starting your college journey at a community college before transferring to a four-year institution can significantly lower your tuition expenses. Community colleges often have lower tuition rates, allowing you to save money during your first two years of education. Ensure that your courses are transferable to your desired university to avoid setbacks. Furthermore, attending a community college first can give you the chance to explore different fields of study before committing to a major, reducing the risk of costly switches later on. It also provides an environment that often has smaller class sizes, allowing for more personalized attention and support from professors.

 

Consider a Trade

 

Opting for a career in the trades can be a smart and cost-effective alternative to traditional college education. Typically, vocational schools and apprenticeships are significantly cheaper than four-year degree programs, yet they often lead to high-paying jobs with substantial demand. Welding, for instance, is a trade that offers great earning potential and job stability. It’s a skill needed in various industries, from construction and manufacturing to aerospace and automotive. If you’re considering this path, plenty of online resources are available to help you learn more about welding. These include instructional videos, tutorials, forums, and even online courses. By leveraging these resources, you can gain a solid understanding of the trade, the skills required, and the opportunities available, helping you make an informed decision about your career path.

 

Explore Tax Credits and Deductions

Research the tax credits and deductions available for college students and their families. These can help reduce your tax burden and free up additional funds for your education. Consult a tax professional or utilize online resources to maximize your tax benefits. Taking advantage of these opportunities can further alleviate your financial responsibilities. Students or parents can also consider tax-free savings accounts offered by the U.S. government. These accounts could potentially hold significant financial benefits for college expenses.

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Buy Textbooks From Online Resources

Textbooks can be a significant expense, but there are ways to save money on them. Instead of buying new textbooks, consider purchasing or renting used books or digital copies. Online marketplaces, book rental services, and digital platforms offer textbooks at discounted prices. Compare prices and ensure that the books you choose are compatible with your course requirements. Additionally, consider checking if your library has copies of the required textbooks. They may offer them for free or at a minimal cost. Another option is to form study groups with classmates and share the cost of textbooks.

Find a Side Gig for Extra Income

To supplement your income, consider taking on a side gig. Develop marketable skills that can be utilized in freelance work or part-time jobs. A side gig can provide valuable financial support while allowing you to gain practical experience. This can also offer opportunities for personal growth and professional development. You may discover new passions, meet inspiring people, or even turn your side gig into a full-time career. Start by creating a professional resume saved as a PDF; you can showcase your qualifications and increase your chances of securing additional sources of income. Go with a PDF maker to ensure your resume maintains its formatting across all devices and keep the document secure.

 

 

Start a Side Business

Another option to generate extra income is to start a side business. Consider forming a Limited Liability Company (LLC) to protect your personal assets and potentially enjoy tax benefits. Evaluate business ideas that align with your skills and interests, and start small while managing your academic commitments. A successful side business can provide financial stability and valuable entrepreneurial experience. Starting a side business also allows you to explore your passions and hobbies in a more formal setting, possibly turning what you love into a profitable venture. You can also consider partnering with a friend or classmate to share the workload and responsibilities.

 

Funding your college education without accumulating debt requires careful planning and resourcefulness. By applying for scholarships and grants, living off-campus, working part-time, attending community college, leveraging tax benefits, buying affordable textbooks, finding side gigs, and considering a side business, you can successfully finance your education and build a solid foundation for your future career. Remember to explore all available opportunities and seek financial advice when needed to make the most of your college experience.  Know of more unique ways  to Fund College Education Without Loans? Comment below.

 

 

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Unraveling the Basics of Hinduism

I still vividly recall the day I was pondering over my son’s 5th grade History quiz and the following True/False question caught my attention.

True/false?

Hinduism has no founder, no holy book, and no central set of beliefs.

While the “correct” answer for this as per the textbook was ‘True’, it got me curious as to what the textbook said about Hinduism. I began to peruse through it, and indeed, this very sentence was in it. While I agree that Hinduism does not have a founder as such, and no particular single holy book that Hindus follow (such as the Bible or Quran), I began to think about what this statement may convey to a Hindu child growing up in America. Particularly, the last part regarding a central set of beliefs. The statement almost seems to convey that anything goes in Hinduism..that it is lax by nature. I didn’t want my son or other students in his class viewing Hinduism in such a manner. So I wrote to the teacher detailing the thoughts that follow.

  “There are many gods we worship in Hinduism..each of whom signifies different virtues that we choose to integrate into our daily lives. Hindu gods sometimes have animal-like features and multiple body parts. Again, there is a significance for each of these anomalies. Hinduism’s holy books include the Vedas, Upanishads, Mahabharata and Ramayana. The roles played by the gods and the decisions they choose to take during critical junctures in these stories serve as a moral code for us..for when we encounter difficult situations in life..when we need to distinguish right from wrong. Stories from these books have been published in a comic format by Amar Chitra Katha publishers. My own kids have devoured several books from the series over the years and I would be happy to do an Amar Chitra Katha book reading session in your class.”

The teacher was more than happy to accommodate a session wherein we discussed gods and traditions of Hinduism, and read a couple of Amar Chitra Katha comics together. And as for the question on the test, the teacher was also kind enough to re-word it so as to eliminate any misinterpretations. As for me, I was secretly relieved that I had made the right decision by exposing my kids to Indian comics from a young age.

 

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Is Celebrating Christmas Appropriate in a Multicultural Setting?

It’s that time of the year, and in that very multicultural part of the world where I come from – Australia – celebrating Christmas in our education care settings can be quite a challenge. 

Why? Because, our education & care settings reflect the cultural, linguistic & religious diversity of Australia, and many Educators are uncertain about whether to celebrate, for fear of not being inclusive and respectful to all the children and families in their classroom.

I would like to unpack these feelings of uncertainty, explore the “celebrations” debate and encourage practitioners to move forward and celebrate at this important time of the year. 

There is so much opportunity for learning and spreading the message around diversity, inclusion, respect and acceptance. In fact, Christmas for me is the best time of the year for reflection, conversations and hands on experiences around inclusion, belonging, understanding, awareness, acceptance, celebrating our diversity, connecting with children and families as cultural beings and exploring and growing our own cultural competence & inclusive practices as practitioners.

As practitioners, we need to be developing & delivering culturally inclusive and authentic programs that reflect the diversity of our classrooms and are meaningful to our children & families. Whatever happens in the classroom is extended to the home environment and vice versa. So if these conversations and celebrations are happening at home and in the classroom, this can also lead to stronger partnerships and a wonderful exchange and learning about our rich cultural experiences.

Although celebrations are a very important aspect of culture (being either religious, festive, historical or nationally based), the most common challenges I hear about include:

  • “Celebrations are too hard & a very sensitive area, so we would rather not celebrate.” “We don’t want to be disrespectful or do the wrong thing, so we prefer to have a “No Celebrations Policy.”
  • Celebrations are not relevant, age appropriate or meaningful to all children & families.
  • Families may oppose the involvement of their children in various celebrations – including those that may contradict their religious or moral views.
  • Celebration programs focus on the commercial or ‘exotic’ which highlights difference and doesn’t provide authentic information to children on how people live their daily lives.
  • Celebrations may verge on promoting stereotype – the idea that all members of a particular group or culture share the same attitudes and values about a particular celebration.
  • Uncertainty around which celebrations to recognise, in order to be inclusive and equitable.

Despite this list of challenges, I strongly believe that  “it’s great to celebrate!”. All these perceived challenges are valid, but these challenges and concerns can be unpacked and worked through. With reflection, consultation, collaboration, some guiding tips & strategies, the celebration journey can be a meaningful, authentic, inclusive, educational and fun learning experience for everyone involved.

Why celebrate?

  • Celebrations help foster a positive sense of self and self identity in children, and contribute to increased pride in cultural identity, self esteem, cultural being and sense of belonging.
  • When we recognise days that are special to families and cultural groups, it demonstrates that we value them. Consider it as an opportunity for children and families to share a special holiday or tradition.
  • Celebrations provide children, Educators and families with an opportunity to learn about values, experiences and celebrations that are different from their own (or even similar to theirs).
  • Celebrations can create an extension of the child’s home environment and help celebrate the child’s cultural being – celebrations demonstrate caring for and educating the child in a cultural context.
  • Celebrations provide opportunities for Services to develop inclusive policies & practices that celebrate diversity.
  • Celebrations provide opportunities for developing & building respectful partnerships with families through establishing cultural connections. If you have families that celebrate, ask for their input & ideas. Invite your families to help lead the celebrations and participate.
  • Celebrations are a good opportunity for Educators to reflect on their cultural competence journey, share aspects of their culture and reflect on how cultural and religious diversity and celebrations are reflected in their program.

Tips & ideas to consider when planning celebrations:

  • Reflect on your current Celebrations practices as a team & Service.
  • Develop a Celebration policy to help your Service choose, implement & evaluate celebration programs & activities. Evaluate you Celebration policy every year to check in on whether all staff & families still find it relevant and appropriate.
  • Ensure that your Celebration policy incorporates the cultural and linguistic needs of all your children, families and staff and that policies are translated so that all families are able to provide input. Ensure that your policy respects the right of families and children to not participate in celebrations.
  • Reflect on how you choose celebrations that are meaningful, developmentally appropriate and inclusive to the children, families & community.
  • Focus on events that are culturally relevant to individual children, families & Educators. Keep Celebrations inclusive, relevant, developmentally appropriate and have fun celebrating! Consider what celebrations contribute to forming each child’s identity within the Australian and global community.
  • Incorporate a question in your enrolment form that asks families what celebrations are important to them, what they would like to celebrate and how.
  • Consult with the children about their current interests around celebrations, what they would like to celebrate & how. This helps develop their sense of agency and belonging. Offer children authentic learning experiences based on their prior knowledge & experiences.
  • Consider the values we want to impart with in children through what we chose to celebrate. The key is to ensure that there is balance in our celebrations and in the messages we leave with children about the celebration. eg. an appreciation of diversity, inclusion, respect & belonging.
  • Explore the diverse (and similar) ways in which families & Educators celebrate events/festivals.
  • With religious celebrations, it is important that all families are informed and consulted. The key is to reflect this in your Celebration policy and ensure that all religious celebrations and cultural festivals are reflected in your overall programming and celebrations so that ALL children and families feel included. 
  • Present celebrations equally, rather than focus on one festival in depth. Do you have children & families that celebrate at particular times of the year? (eg Ramadan, Diwali, Hannukah etc). Start with these celebrations, and over time, you can move towards celebrating more diverse festivals, especially if the values that you want to foster in children include an appreciation of cultural diversity.
  • Keep in mind that it’s impossible to celebrate everything. In Education and Care, we are bombarded with a plethora of celebrations, “days” “weeks” for us to genuinely cover and address. Sometimes acknowledgement of this celebration is adequate. 

Children’s interests are a good starting point, and be sure to tap into your in-house Educator resources and any associated local community events (eg Moon Festival event through local council or cultural organisation).

  • Ensure that celebrations are not just celebrated as a program ‘add-on’, but rather the values and messages we want to instil in the children are embedded all year round. Incorporate celebrations into your every day curriculum (through books, puzzles, games, music & movement, storytelling) not just stand alone, tokenistic events.
  • Celebrations usually start on the surface level of culture (eg art/craft, music, food etc). In every day family life, cultural festivals have deeper meaning (such as celebrating religion, family relationships). The challenge for programming respectfully & authentically around celebrations is to also incorporate cultural information and understanding at a deeper level alongside the fun activities. Be sure to discuss the meaning of the celebration/holiday/festival with children.
  • Begin by incorporating celebrations that are relevant to individual children and families in your program. Invite the families to become involved and share their celebrations. Through their guidance and input, we are in a better position to provide non stereotypical and respectful celebrations (that move beyond the celebrations through art & craft activities, but also enable the conversations around the meaning & significance behind the celebration). 
  • Parent consultation, input & participation is important. Develop a system to encourage family/Centre communication (eg. notice board, digital, Newsletter, informal conversations, surveys) giving parents the opportunity to let you know when a celebration is coming up.
  • Set up a library of items for loan to families and ask families if you can borrow celebratory items from them. eg books, greeting cards, traditional dress, artefacts, decorations.
  • Research and tap into opportunities to celebrate with your local community. eg Local Festival excursion or cultural celebratory incursion.
  • Extend on your cultural competence and learn about celebrations that can be explained to children and build on their existing knowledge.

What happens when families do not want their children to participate in particular celebrations?

Quite often, families do not want their children to participate in particular celebrations, for various reasons (eg contradiction of moral or religious views). Policies should respects the right of families and children to not participate in celebrations and families who do not wish to be involved in celebrations should have options for ‘opting out’. Offer appropriate alternatives for children and families who chose not to participate in celebrations. 

References:

  1. Casley, Celebrating With Children: A Cultural Perspective, Diversity in Child Care Queensland, STTAR Program, 2001.
  2. Tsambouniaris, Festivals and Celebrations, Bankstown Early Integration and Networking Group, 2004

Extract from Putting Children First, the magazine of the National Childcare Accreditation Council (NCAC) Issue 33, March 2010 (pages 17-19), Genuine Celebrations: Including cultural experiences in the program.

Cultural Connections, Child Australia, 2017

 

Meni has been in the early childhood education sector for 35 years. She has a Bachelor of Science in Psychology (UNSW) and has worked in various multicultural children’s services positions over the years under the Commonwealth Inclusion Support strategy including co-ordinating Sups Programs and managing the NSW Bicultural Support Program. She is an early childhood author, resource developer and trainer on cultural inclusion. In addition, she is a CALD representative, adviser and consultant on various platforms. Meni currently co-manages a multicultural consultancy program called Diversity Kids and has a strong passion for cultural inclusive practice, bilingualism, and embedding cultural perspectives in education & care settings.

 

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Why We Should Be Discussing Religions! – Vicky Garlock

Many people claim that we should never talk about religion – especially religions that are not our own. I totally disagree!” In fact, future generations will need to be more globally-competent, culturally-aware, and religiously-literate than any cohort in history. That means, we need to start with our kids.

Humans are coming together in ways we never dreamed possible. Nowadays, we are significantly more likely to encounter people different from ourselves – ethnically, culturally, and religiously – and that’s a good thing! Research has shown that such interactions reduce cross-group fear and prejudice and increase trust and empathy. 

Some of these interactions even lead to marriage. About 10% of U.S. adults were raised in multifaith families where parents were affiliated with two different religions. Another 12% were raised in families where one parent was religiously affiliated (usually Christian) while the other parent was religiously unaffiliated (“none”). As you might expect, both numbers are on the rise. In fact, almost 40% of Americans who married since 2010 have a spouse with a different religious affiliation. 

Unfortunately, not all interactions are positive. Religiously motivated harassment is reported in over 90% of the world’s countries, and the majority of religiously motivated hate crimes in the U.S. are targeted against Jews. Hindu, Sikh, and Muslim students across the U.S. are also bullied in school.

 

Among Hindu-American teens, one in three reports being bullied. One survey of Muslim students showed over half had been made fun of, verbally insulted, or abused because of their religion. And similar numbers are also reported by Sikh children, especially if a turban is worn. This absolutely has to stop. Immediately. 

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Talking about the world’s religions may force us outside of our traditional comfort zones, but that’s no excuse. Our kids need some baseline knowledge about the major world religions, and it’s perfectly acceptable to learn along with them. We also need to recognize that our strength, as a species, stems from our diversity. Actually, our survival may very well depend on the extent to which we can acknowledge, appreciate, and embrace that fact.

 

 

Vicki Garlock is the founder of World Religions for Kids, a company dedicated to improving religious literacy in children and their adults. Her kids’ books, geared to kids aged 4-10, include the award-winning We All Have Sacred Spaces. Vicki received her Sc.B. in Psychology from Brown University before attending the Univ. of AL – Birmingham for her Ph.D. with dual specialties in neuroscience and cognitive development. After that, she served as a Nurture Coordinator and Curriculum Specialist where she developed a multifaith curriculum for kids aged 4 through 8th grade and was ordained as their Minister of Education. You can follow her on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or TikTok (@learnreligions).

 

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Teaching Kids About Bodies in an Age-Appropriate Manner

The naturally curious nature of children will eventually lead them to want to know more about their bodies. However, body-related conversations can be awkward and challenging for parents.

Educating your child on their body is essential for them to have a healthy, long-term relationship with themselves, understand how to best care for their body, and lead a healthy lifestyle. As a parent, it’s crucial to do so in an age-appropriate way. That will help your child learn what they need to know and set them up to successfully learn even more about their body in the future.

Determine What Your Child Should Know

The first step to teaching your kid about their body is determining what they should know at their age. If you don’t know what your child should know, you may teach them things too early or too late, either of which can impact their care and relationship with their body.

Do thorough research on what your children should know about their bodies at their ages. For example, if you have a boy aged 11-16 or a girl aged 8-13, start discussing puberty with them so they understand the physical and hormonal changes they’ll likely endure and how to navigate them. When you know what’s appropriate to teach your children at their ages, you can feed them the information they need about their bodies at the right times in their lives.

Nurture Trust-Filled Relationships

The last thing you want is for your child to feel like they can’t come to you with questions about their body or anything for that matter. Trying to navigate their bodily changes on their own will likely overwhelm or even frighten your child.

You can ensure this doesn’t happen by nurturing trust-filled relationships with your kid. Start with regular open and honest conversations with them about life. Be sure to listen more than you talk so that your children feel heard and understood. They’ll become more comfortable opening up to you. This will make them more likely to bring up any questions or concerns about their body to you in the future.

Start the Conversations

Even with a trust-filled relationship with your child, they may not initiate conversations about their body often, if they do at all. To ensure you’re able to have these conversations with your kid, you’ll have to get comfortable starting them yourself.

Plan out what you will discuss with your child and at what time. Keep in mind that there will still be impromptu lessons that arise from time to time, so try to be ready for everything. Even if you planned to talk about a certain topic, your child may ask questions related to something else instead. Be receptive to these shifts if they occur and don’t shut your child down. Otherwise, they may be less willing to have similar conversations later on.

Be Diligent About Conversations Surrounding Genitals

Out of discomfort, some parents postpone teaching their children about genitals and sexuality as long as possible. But it’s much better to be upfront about these conversations and lessons so that your children understand concepts like:

  • Consent;
  • How babies are made;
  • Proper genital hygiene;
  • The basics of healthy genitals;
  • Appropriate and inappropriate touching.

A great example is teaching girls about their vaginas. There are many myths about vaginas — including how they should look, smell, and function — that are important to debunk for your child. These myths can influence how your child understands and feels about their own body and ultimately impact their physical and mental health negatively.

Additionally, don’t feel like you need to use code names like “private part” to reference a vagina or penis. It’s better to use the proper name so that your kids understand there’s no shame in having or talking about genitals openly and honestly.

Instill Healthy Habits in Your Children

A vital lesson in your child’s education is how to properly fuel and care for their body. It’s crucial to have these conversations early on so your child doesn’t develop an unhealthy relationship with food or exercise as they get older — and can put these lessons into practice in the meantime.

Focus on teaching your children about good nutrition and how eating a balanced diet will help them grow big and strong. Share with them how eating too much sugar can lead to health issues like cavities, obesity, and diabetes. Make meals full of fruits and veggies to show them how tasty healthy food can be. Try not to frame foods as either good or bad; instead, help them understand how different foods can impact their bodies.

It’s also essential to implement exercise in their daily routine. Whether toddlers, elementary-age, or teens, kids need physical activity to build strong bones and muscles, help them maintain an appropriate weight, and improve their cognitive performance. Nature walks, sports, and kid-friendly workouts are great to start with.

Build Body Image and Confidence

How your children feel about themselves and their bodies is critical for healthy development.  Kids form opinions about their bodies early on, with body image issues arising as early as 3 years old.

Make it a point to help your children build their body image and boost their confidence. Don’t talk negatively about the way they look, dress, and so forth. Never compare them to others and help them do the same. Encourage your children to express their individualism.

And finally, remind them of how wonderful they are as a human, regardless of how they look. This is especially important when they’re feeling doubtful about their bodies, insecure about how they look, or hear a hurtful comment from a friend, family member, or stranger.

Conclusion

Your children have a right to know the truth about their bodies and how to care for them appropriately. Don’t strip them of this right by putting off conversations, refusing to answer questions, or creating awkwardness around body-related discussions.

Instead, nurture trust-filled relationships with your children so that it’s easier to educate them about their bodies in an age-appropriate manner. Here is a link to books about the same.

5 Reasons an Online Special Education Program Would Benefit Your Child

5 Benefits of an Online Special Education Program

Education is one of the most complex and important social issues that society faces. There are millions of children around the world today with totally different backgrounds, unique gifts and diverse aptitudes. Fortunately, the rise of specialized and online programs has opened up a world of possibility when it comes to a tailored education. There are plenty of reasons to consider enrolling a child in an online special education program that fits their needs.

Flexible Scheduling

One of the chief benefits of online programs is flexibility. Many parents and their children simply can’t accommodate standard school times due to conflicts with other responsibilities. Accessing learning material online puts more control over pacing and scheduling into the hands of the student and their family. It can also allow for travel to show your children the world.

Community Participation

Another reason to consider an online special education program is to get your child involved in a community. Depending on the special education needs and considerations, it can be difficult to find suitable peers or companions for young people. The internet opens up the opportunity to connect with other people with similar life experiences.

Tailored Programs

Every child benefits from a tailored education, but those with special educational needs are even more dependent on personal care in their academic pursuits. In many cases, personalized programs can pave the way for students to stay on track and even outperform expectations. Attention to students and adjustment to keep pace with their maturing process is the key to good education.

Break Out of the Bubble

Another reason parents enroll their kids in online educational programs is to expose them to new things. Many people grow up with limited access to different kinds of people, places, and ideas. Joining a new group with fresh ideas forces people to get out of their comfort zone and grow.

Find New Solutions

Sometimes all it takes to make a breakthrough is a little fresh air. Joining an online special education program can create openings for both the kids and their parents to find new solutions and bond. This can be social development, branching into new interests, or simply becoming more self-sufficient in certain tasks. Exchanging experiences, ideas, and information with other people within a community is a valuable benefit.

When it comes to raising and educating children, it’s hard to ever be satisfied with the status quo. Parents always want the best for their kids, which is only natural. The rise of online education means that there are a lot more options out there now and they are much more accessible than ever before.

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Picture Book Writing Workshop – October/November 2022

This holiday season, give yourself the gift of a dream come  true. Go from idea to finally writing that first draft of your very first picture book.
1.Always wanted to write a children’s book but don’t have the commitment?
2.Not sure about which of your ideas is marketable?
3.Wondering what do you do after you write your book?
Half the struggle in life is finding the right person, who will not make you THINK about the right question to ask…
I can’t help solve all your problems, but can help you write the story you always imagined.
If you have been following my journey or know me personally, you know I do have time for BS. That is why this is not a WHOLE spiel. In short, this is what this one of a kind workshop has to offer.

What is covered in workshop

Please read below carefully… 

Always wanted to write a book but do NOT have the commitment or the energy to go through the pools of information available on the internet??  Then this is YOUR opportunity to go from dreaming of being a writer to taking that first big step to invest your time, energy and resources towards your dream.

We will use this workshop to understand how to write a children’s book, how many kinds there are, writing to age, how to pick a marketable idea and a quick overview of what happens after you finish your first draft.

Day One – Ideation, Types of children’s books, Character development, Researching and picking an idea to work on for the workshop
Day Two – Discussing the idea, characters, defining age group and the story arc
Day Three – Reading and getting feedback on the first draft
Day Four – What happens after you write your first children’s book
I recommend keeping aside one and half hour per day to work on your book for these four days.
The advantages of this one of a kind workshop is, you will get feedback live from peers and I will include one round of critique on the story you have drafted. 
Note – Everyone who signs up will get recordings of the video. Every session includes worksheets and group discussion AND if you happen to miss it, you can send me a list of questions and I will answer them all.

Oct 10th – 13th 10 am EST – $145
Nov 14th – 17th 8 pm EST – $145

 

Please fill out the form for which slot you are looking to book and I will send you the invoice to pay. Since this is going to have personalized feedback on each story, seats per workshop are limited.

SAVE MY SPOT – Register Here

 

ABOUT ME

 

 

I always wanted to be a writer. Difference between most and me is that I followed through by investing in my dream. I have studied writing, publishing and marketing and have seen the market grow, change and evolve over the past 10 years. You name the topic and I have done a course or read a book and if I have not, I will know where to find the right resource for the same.
I went from blogger on Orkut to blogger to freelance writer to founding this collaborative platform to publishing seventeen books (including others) and editing sixty four. My work so far, has won 7 awards and been featured on various network platforms like NBC, CBS, Thrive Global, Huffington Post and more. Few of the books I have worked on that are live now below.

 

 

Melody the unicorn

Melody the Unicorn & the beauty within – Book Review

It is hard to believe in your own beauty. Daily, many of us, even as adults struggle with accepting who we are, talents, uniqueness, flaws and all! This beautiful story, with vivid illustrations and unicorns helps children see that fitting in, is not always about being the same. You belong because of who you are!

You talent and the way you treat others is what makes you unique. 

Written for ages five through eight, this delightful picture book is a wonderful addition to libraries that are looking for ways in which to build children’s confidence. It would also make a great read aloud for children younger.

After all, which child does not love unicorns!

The beauty of this book is not just the journey of Melody but the way in which the author takes a complex concept and makes it so palatable for children. A must read for children who may be wondering why they are different or wondering what makes them special.

FIVE STARS from ADITI WARDHAN SINGH (RaisignWorldChildren.com)

Subani Maheshawari
COPYRIGHT – Subani Maheshwari

AMAZON BOOK DESCRIPTION 

ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1737425847

Melody wants to fit in with her rainbow-colored friends. When her attempts to add color to her plain mane fail, Melody’s friends reveal a secret: They love something about her that has nothing to do with how she looks.

Melody the Unicorn and the Beauty Within is a heartwarming story of friendship, self-love, accepting diversity and embracing our uniqueness. Filled with beautiful illustrations, this light-hearted picture book will inspire young readers to be proud of who they are, gain confidence and find their inner beauty.

A book about inclusion and acceptance that encourages everyone to welcome our unique differences, it’s the perfect back-to-school, birthday, or Christmas gift for girls and boys ages 5 to 9, or for anyone who loves magic, rainbows and unicorns. As an early reader, Melody the Unicorn is perfect for reading aloud with little sisters and brothers!

Give your kindergartener, first grader or second grader a gift that boosts confidence and shows diversity and uniqueness as positive qualities.

Melody the unicorn and the beauty within
COPYRIGHT – Subani Maheshwari

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? Grab this wonderful book and snuggle up with the munchkin in your life. 

More books and resources available here. 

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Teaching Kids To Turn Failures Into Learning Opportunities

As a parent or caregiver of a child, you never want to see your little ones hurting. It’s hard to see kids experience struggles. You might want to protect them from every hardship life has to offer. However, not only is it impossible, but it could also hinder them more than help them.

 

There are common childhood medical issues, like losing teeth or getting chicken pox, and then there are more complex emotional traumas, like dealing with the grief that comes with the loss of a family pet or having a first fight with a close friend. All of these adverse experiences can be turned into learning opportunities.

 

These events are undoubtedly difficult in the moment. However, teaching your kids to turn these negative moments into learning opportunities will make them more resilient as they get older. They’ll be able to “bounce back” faster from the hardships in their lives, and they have the opportunity to become more capable individuals.

 

There are several ways you can help your child navigate through these moments. Teach yourself now how to teach them to overcome adversity with love, grace, strength, self-empathy, and awareness.

Overcoming Negative Medical Experiences

Kids can end up seeing a doctor or even visiting an emergency room for a variety of reasons. From dental issues to broken bones, it’s not uncommon for kids to have medical issues that require professional care.

However, it’s easy for kids to be afraid when it comes to medical care. If that isn’t dealt with early on, it could eventually lead to medical anxiety. Some of the symptoms of medical anxiety include:

 

  • Racing heart;
  • Sweating;
  • Dizziness;
  • Thinking something bad will happen;
  • Wanting to skip doctor’s appointments.

 

Maybe your child has had a negative experience with medical care in the past. They might even fear the unknown or conditions they don’t fully understand, like head lice. After all, no child or parent wants to think about little bugs crawling around in their hair. As a parent, learning about lice can be equally as grotesque and anxiety-inducing. However, you should model positive behaviors to get your child through a tough time like this.

 

In general, you can harness the stress of procedures and check-ups into ways to help them calm down, understand themselves, and better their health. Teach your children about valuing their bodies and their well-being. Give them coping methods to deal with feeling scared before a doctor visit. You’ll also teach them a lot about self-advocacy and how to vouch for their feelings with doctors and other medical professionals as they grow up.

Fighting With Friends

Almost every child comes home from school at some point, upset that they got into an argument with a close friend. As an adult, you can understand the fickleness of young relationships. As a child, however, a fight with a friend can feel like the “end of the world.” It can make your child feel alone, isolated, and misunderstood.

 

Although it might be painful for them, you can turn this negative situation into a learning experience by offering support and acknowledging the validity of their feelings. Set a positive example by staying calm and using productive words when you choose to work through a disagreement. Your child will be likely to do the same when approaching others in the future, which can keep arguments from escalating.

 

Let them tell you about the fight, and make sure they know you’re listening and understanding. While it might be tempting to step in and try to fix things, resist that urge unless it’s absolutely necessary. By setting a positive example, validating their feelings, and offering supportive advice, you’ll teach your child how to work through arguments with friends in healthy, effective ways.

Dealing With Loss

Dealing with loss is difficult for everyone. Grief impacts people differently, so it’s important to make sure your kids understand loss and how to work through the grieving process.

Whether the child is dealing with the loss of a pet, the death of a loved one, or even watching their parents go through a divorce, kids need to know how to fully understand their grieving.

 

Far too many adults use unhealthy coping mechanisms to get through a loss. Teaching your kids healthy ways to cope will help them build resilience through adulthood. There are several strategies you can use to help your child cope with grief, including:

 

  • Keeping consistent routines to make them comfortable;
  • Offering them love and attention;
  • Letting go of your own expectations;
  • Modeling healthy emotions;
  • Finding positive grief outlets, including play;
  • Relieving them of guilt.

 

You can even turn to outside resources if your child is struggling to accept a certain loss. Child counselors, therapists, or support group leaders can help you and your child work on different coping strategies and stress-reduction techniques, including how to teach kids mindfulness and meditation.

 

As much as you might want to at times, you can’t keep your children in a bubble. It’s important to protect them and do what you can to keep them safe while still allowing them to experience what the world has to offer – including adverse moments.

 

Keep these ideas in mind to teach your kids how to turn those adverse moments into something better. The more you focus on these learning opportunities now, the easier it will be for your children to be stronger, empathetic, and self-aware as adults.

 

Teaching Kids To Turn Failures Into Learning Opportunities

 

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5 Unique Activities to Promote Language Learning

There are countless benefits to learning another language, from enhanced critical thinking to a better understanding of the world. For many, however, learning a language is difficult, if not near impossible—or so one might think.

Often, a major hurdle to mastering a language is the learning process. With many people, struggles with learning a second language occur not from a lack of intelligence, but rather from improper study habits.

Learning a language is more than just hours of study and grammar lessons. Some of the best ways to learn involve fun and everyday actions that are perfect for integrating your new language into your daily life.

Here are five unique activities to promote language learning in your home.  

Find a Foreign Friend to Talk With

One of the most straightforward methods of learning a language is to talk to native speakers. If you’re not in an area with many native speakers, consider finding a new friend from your target region. 

Pen pals have long been a great way to connect with others, and learn new languages. In fact, with the hyperconnectivity of today’s world, finding someone to talk to has never been easier. 

Whether you use the traditional method of pen, paper, and envelope, or correspond via the internet, pen pals create a system of mutual betterment. From language learning to cultural enrichment, sharing stories with someone across the world makes us all better. 

When you first start out, you may lack many language skills. Don’t let that stop you, though. There are plenty of guides, templates, and translators to help you and your new friend connect. This printable provides common introductory questions in English, French, and Spanish.

Get started today, and find your newest friend. 

Watch Foreign Shows and Movies With Subtitles

Hearing the spoken word of your target language is one of the best ways to immerse oneself in language learning. However, if traveling is out of the question, keep the learning fun and watch some movies.

Specifically, watch films and shows in your target language. Try to watch them without subtitles the first time, and see how many words and phrases you understand. Take notes and try to translate what you can. On the next watch, pop on the subtitles and compare your notes. Pay attention to any areas that you especially struggled to understand.

Foreign films are a great way to experience a foreign culture. With subtitles, you have a handy translation guide to help with those tricky words and phrases.  

Read in the Target Language

Like hearing the spoken word, seeing the written word helps reaffirm your target language within your mind. Reading books in your new language is a perfect way to understand the ins and outs of the written language.

If needed, start small. Check out short children’s stories if you’re new to the language. They often feature simpler sentences and easy-to-understand words.  

As you progress, strive for more challenging works. Look at top literature lists in the target language, or ask your pen pal what books they would recommend.

Keep a Daily Journal in the Target Language

Like reading, writing in a foreign language is essential to complete linguistic understanding. However, that doesn’t mean copying lines and repeating writing exercises. Grab a journal, find a comfortable spot, and start writing.

Write whatever comes to mind. Don’t worry about mistakes in the beginning. Just strive to write a certain number of words or lines a day. Start with short updates about the weather or your day. As your skills progress, increase the verbosity of your entries. 

With this method, you have clear proof of your progression through your foreign language studies.

Play Language-Learning Games

Games are vital parts of any culture. From family card games to famous board games, they provide a fun and involved way to learn a language. 

For beginners, language-learning games like Kloo provide targeted skills in a fun package. No one needs any skill in the available languages in order to play, though, by the end, the skills of all players will grow.

Additionally, consider the classic game of Scrabble. Simply search for the tile scores in your target language, and start spelling. The rules remain the same, but you can hone your spelling and language skills at the same time.

Final Thoughts

With the right activities, language learning is fun and engaging, not to mention immensely beneficial for brain health, social exploration, and simply leading a rich and full life. With these five approaches, the learning process is easier and more approachable.

Incorporate these activities into your daily routine. You don’t have to do each activity every day, but be sure to engage with language learning whenever you can. Keep a journal nearby to jot down some ideas in your second language. Catch a foreign film every week with your friends. Try a new novel from your favorite foreign author every month.

However you learn, make it fit your lifestyle. Ultimately, absorbing a new language is easier when done through entertaining and comforting means.

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Helping Children Develop Empathetic Decision-Making Skills

It sometimes feels as though the world is running low on empathy. Global conflict, refugee crises, and a rise in race-related hate crimes can make it seem as though everyone has given up on coming together.

However, just because adults today find it hard to get along, that doesn’t mean future generations won’t benefit from empathetic decision-making skills. Young leaders like Greta Thunberg and Malala Yousafzai show that empathy is alive and well within young folks today and can be used to lead us towards a better future.

If you’re inspired by young leaders like Greta Thunberg, you can start to work on empathetic decision-making skills with your own children. Even small steps like teaching them the value of sharing can help your child become a leader of the future that you are proud of.

What is Empathy?

You have probably heard leaders and activists talk about empathy in the past few years. But what, exactly, is empathy?

Empathy is the ability to feel another person’s emotions, thoughts, or feelings. Being empathetic is an important life skill, as it can help avoid conflict and improve collaboration.

Researchers today split empathy up into “affective empathy” and “cognitive empathy”. Cognitive empathy occurs when you imagine yourself in someone else’s shoes. As the name suggests, it requires you to think and consider what another person is going through. Affective empathy is more immediate and usually occurs as soon as we see someone experiencing an emotion like pain or distress.

Empathy is an important part of all egalitarian societies and is necessary to ensure that everyone can live their lives with dignity and respect. Empathy can be used to push social change and galvanize support for issues revolving around human rights and well-being.

Being empathetic also makes everyone’s day-to-day life better. Small acts of kindness and love can go a long way when people are down or face a major challenge in their life. If your child learns to make empathetic decisions, they’re more likely to support their peer groups and community in later life.

Decision-Making as a Skill

We all make thousands of decisions every day. But when was the last time you stopped and asked yourself “why am I choosing ‘x’ over ‘y’”?

Most decisions that we make are straightforward and don’t require any additional training or attention. However, teaching your child how to make intentional decisions based on thoughts, emotions, and assessment of the situation will set them up for success in life.

There are plenty of different decision-making models to choose from. Start simple in a low-stakes environment. For example, if you donate some portion of your paycheck to charities, consider involving your child in the decision-making process.

Make sure you slow down and work through the seven steps of the decision-making process together. Introduce them to the decision you want to make and work together to gather the information you need. Once you’ve gathered all the background information you can find, research alternatives and weigh them up by considering the impact your decision will make. Once you’ve taken action, review the consequences together and try to assess what went well.

Of course, this will look different depending on the age of your child. Choose an age-appropriate decision together and take your time researching and debating the choice.

You should pay particular attention to the role of empathy within your research and when considering alternatives. If you’re ever stuck during the process, try to prompt your child to think more empathetically and imagine themselves from the position of another person who may be affected by the decision.

Gaining Experience

You should start to develop empathetic decision-making skills in a low-stakes environment. However, when your child starts to mature, it’s worth going out into the real world and trying to make a difference in your local community.

There are plenty of community-based activities that you and your child can partake in together. Some of the best volunteering opportunities like creating green spaces in abandoned spaces will improve the safety of your neighborhood. Your child can also gain experience by volunteering together at shelters and soup kitchens that promote empathy and help uplift your community.

Taking action is an important part of empathetic decision-making. However, taking the right action also takes experience. You can help your child gain experience as an empathetic thinker by encouraging them to read more often. Reading forces us to think from the perspective of someone else and can significantly improve decision-making in young leaders.

Conclusion

Empathetic decision-making is integral to the success of future generations. You can help your child learn to empathize with others by getting involved in local community projects and practicing decision-making together. Try to start in a low-stakes setting so they have a chance to gain experience without any major consequences. As they mature, work towards issues you both care about.

Helping Children Develop Empathetic Decision-Making Skills