I am exactly that. Foreign in my own country, and Alien in this foreign country that I Live.
I have many names.. Mom, wife, daughter, sister, but the name ALIEN pricks my heart.
I am the foreign mom ,who wishes her own mom was close by for comfort, when life doesn’t sail smooth.
I am the foreign mom ,who is lonely even with the virtual closeness of social media.
I am the foreign mom ,who behind the facade of big house, mowed lawn,would give up anything just for a day in her own humble home.
I am the foreign mom ,who smells the earth of her homeland whenever it rains.
I am the foreign mom, who remembers the gushing wind on the face when sitting on a window seat of the train ,while travelling in a comfortable car on a smooth road in this country.
I am the foreign mom who celebrates festivals only on a weekend at a party.
I am the foreign mom who feels sorry for my children that dont know the feel of growing up around their cousins.
I am the foreign mom whose social media profile filled with beautiful landscapes of this foreign country , flips through her old photo albums with a knot in her throat.
I am the foreign mom who fears her children might never fully appreciate their roots ,for all they get to see are the colourful fruits .
I am the foreign mom who is living in this dreamland, dreaming to go back home one day.
12 Responses
I know the feeling. The part about the kids not growing up around their cousins pricked my heart, this used to be us until we did what we thought would be impossible and moved back to my hometown. Life has been better since then.
Thanks for relating to this. ❤
I hope you are able to find peace where you are and are able to go back home soon. You sound like you really miss it.
Thank you ❤
I can relate to this somewhat. we moved halfway across the country and it’s hard being away from family
Thank you for relating this.Much love and strength to you ❤
This is such a poignant and beautifully written, heartfelt piece. Thank you so much for writing it and sharing your thoughts.
Thank you ❤
Beautiful post. I am sure your experience will help a lot of people.
Thank you❤
I understand missing your own mom it’s so nice to have that to lean on.
True ❤